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The original "Sisonpyh" post (David DeAngelo)

Sisonpyh:

***For reasons that are obvious to some, I have to start by saying

that this is my PERSONAL experience and my PERSONAL

technique. It is not meant to save you or the world, and much of

what I say may not appeal to you. If you don't like it, don't use it. It

ALL works for me, IN THE REAL WORLD, and has been used

over and over and over to get me laid. It all works FOR ME. You

don't need to argue with any of it, unless of course you're feeling

insecure.

Onward.

I made the decision about two and a half years ago that I needed

to get the area of my life 'handled' called 'dealing with women.' So

I made a decision and a commitment to myself and my best friend

that I would do whatever it took to learn and 'figure this out.'

(Read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill Chapter #1 for more

on this mindset).

Background: I had always had 'girlfriends by default' as Ross

Jeffries calls them. they were there, and I felt lucky to have the

opportunity to get them to be my girlfriend. But I never knew how

to approach women that I didn't know, and I could sit in a bar for

three hours making eye contact with a woman, and never have

the nerve to go talk to her. Right now I'm just turning 30, I'm about

5'10 160. I think I'm reasonably good looking, but I've never been

the kind of guy that women just walk up and approach. (I say this

to give you frame of reference in relationship to the comments in

this newsletter relating to looks, etc.) I've made myself more

attractive by paying attention, learning, and using what works.

When I made the decision to get this part of my life handled, I

decided that instead of trying to start with an angle (working at a

strip club, becoming famous for something, etc.) that I would like

to learn in a way that gave me power to act on just my

presentation etc. (I may do the angle thing soon, as I have my

skills to the point where I like them now)

First, I looked at myself. I asked "If I were the type of woman that I

would like to seduce (I like super hot, very intelligent women),

what would make me want to be with a man?"

So I started reading, listening to tapes, going to seminars . you

name it.

And I started to work on my 'presentation' of myself.

I now think that it's important to get EVERY POSSIBLE thing

going for you that you can.

If you have fucked up teeth, that doesn't prevent you from

dressing well.

forinstance. So don't let it. Get a cool hair style. Buy nice clothes

(don't tell me that you don't have the $$$. get on eBay, go to the

Nordstrom Rack and look at the clearance items. I did it to begin

with.) If you will do just a few key things, they won't necessarily

HELP you get laid, but they'll get rid of things that are

PREVENTING you from getting laid now that you don't even

realize. Make no mistake about it. if you're interested in the

hottest women, you'd better realize right now that these things

make a difference.

You don't have to work out 10x a week, but get your body in at

least OK shape. You don't have to have perfect teeth, but make

sure that they're clean and that your breath is great. Learn what

nice shoes are, and how to keep them nice. Figure out how colors

and clothing go together and what is cool.

It's worth it. I wasn't 'cool' when I started, now I've learned how to

be.

Huge difference. (Am I saying that you can't get laid if you wear

Nike's and have fucked up hair? No. But remember, a blind pig

can find an occasional truffle.)

Here's my mindset: Keep improving all the time, even if it's the

SMALLEST DETAIL. (I noticed recently that at least once every

time I go out, a girl will ask me for a light. I always just said "I don't

smoke" or "No" and left it at that. Couple weeks ago I said "Ah-

Ha" and I went to the lighter store SPECIFICALLY to find the

coolest lighter that anyone has invented. I bought this trick torch

lighter that makes a huge flame. looks like a welding flame.

So what do you think happened the first time I went out with it?

Right. got asked for a light. and fucking freaked the chick out.

Nice.)

I intuitively knew that there were certain major steps to a

'seduction ,' if you will. This is how my mind naturally thinks.

I've now broken these down in my mind to:

1) THE INITIAL APPROACH

2) MAKING THEM TOTALLY FASCINATED WITH ME

3) GETTING THEIR PHONE NUMBER OR EMAIL ADDRESS

4) GETTING THE FIRST MEETING

5) GETTING THEM TO MY HOUSE AND CLOSING THE DEAL

Underpinning all of these is my self image, confidence,

personality, and all of that other intangible bullshit that takes a bit

to get under control. so let me address how I got that together

before I talk about what I do specifically. (By the way. this is the

most important part of what I'm writing right now. All the rest has

flowed from my attitude and confidence.

not the other way around. So if you read nothing else, read this.

not the other parts.)

I've been studying NLP and hypnosis for years. since before it

was cool.

because I have always been fascinated by how people work. So I

began by creating self image exercises based on NLP and

Timeline therapy, and doing them all the time. ( Read Frogs Into

Princes by Bandler and Grinder and The Secret of Creating Your

Future By Tad James) I also started keeping a personal journal of

everything that I was learning and doing, so I could reflect on it.

And MOST IMPORTANTLY I found and started to hang around

with guys that GOT LAID LIKE CHARLIE SHEEN. This was the

biggie . I owe much of my success to the guys who showed me in

the real world what they did to get laid. It wasn't the books and the

people selling tapes and seminars . It was the real world guys that

were getting laid. What I do now resembles nothing that I've really

read in a book or learned from a guru (With one or two exceptions

that I'll share later). So the BEST advice I can give you is to find

about 5 guys in your area that know what the fuck they're doing,

and say "Hey, I really want to get this part of my life handled. can

I take you to dinner (no kissing) and pick your brain man?" Be

humble and cool, and you'll make some friends. Like I said, find

about 5 different guys so you can get different perspectives and

see how it all fits together. By the way, go read the chapter in

Think and Grow Rich about the Mastermind as well. IF YOU DO

NOTHING ELSE, DO THIS ONE THING. IT WILL MAKE THE

DIFFERENCE. If you DON'T do this part, shut your mouth, and

keep your learning cap on, you'll be one of the guys that writes to

Cliff saying "Well, when Mystery had this chick that said "I really

love it when a man just sweeps me off my feet" why didn't he use

the skydiving suckerfish pattern instead of kissing her?"

Those of you that know what I'm talking about say Amen, please.

(I had to say that for us)

I decided recently to start studying comedy, as I've found that

women respond to it better than any other thing in the whole

goddamn entire universe. So I did a bunch of reading on the

internet to find the best books, and I bought about 5 or 6 of them.

One book that I'm reading right now called Comedy Writing

Secrets by Helitzer made a great point... He said that most of

being funny is the CHARACTER and not the jokes. Most of the

guys that I meet who want to learn to get laid are working on the

jokes. I did it for about two years myself. Tried to learn all the

patterns and all the lines and all the bullshit. It finally dawned on

me that women were not really that concerned with all of that.

they wanted a particular CHARACTER. The lines didn't much

matter, as long as they fit in with the character. Now that I have

created this CHARACTER for women, things are all different.

Women now call me. They pursue me. They want to be around

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